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 Spina, Carol Ann Cecile
Born: 01/27/1968
Died: 07/20/2017
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Spina, Carol Ann Cecile

               Surrounded by her loving family, Carol Ann Spina of Green Township passed away the morning of July 20th at the age of 49 after a courageous battle against colon cancer.  For nearly three years she fought with quiet, dignity and grace, a paradigm of hopeful strength, refusing to give up until the very end.     

 

               Carol was born at Chilton Hospital in Pequannock Township on January 27, 1968 and grew up in the Erskine Lakes section of Ringwood.  Always enjoying her time outdoors, she played softball, embarked on frequent camping trips with her family and spent her summers swimming in the lake.  In grade school Carol was a cheerleader for the little league football team.  Once enrolled in Lakeland Regional High School she took an interest in music, learning to play the flute when she wasn’t lacing up skates for disco night at a nearby roller rink.

 

Only a few years after graduating high school, she met her husband to be, Michael, at the Kinnelon location of Consumers Distributing where she ran the jewelry department.  It was his first day of work, a cold snowy day and, as usual, he was late.  Carol was stuck there until he showed up, and as fate would have it, she stuck with him for the rest of her life.  They were an unbreakable unit, their bond of unconditional love a mountain to weather all storms.

 

Carol married Mike on June 9, 1995 at Our Lady of Consolation Church after dating for nearly four years.  In November of 1997 they welcomed their first son Alexander to the family and in December of 2003 he was joined by their second son Jacob.  Carol was always proud of her boys.  Her unwavering devotion and unconditional love for them were her primary tools to shepherd them to a brighter future.

 

Her keen intelligence, diligence and dedication led her to become a department manager for the medical billing company nThrive.  Embraced by her co-workers, she was beloved not just as a boss or an employee, but as a mentor, friend and sister.

 

Carol’s caring, generous, funny and mischievous spirit was matched by her creativity.  Talented with her hands, she enjoyed making crafts, painting ceramics and crocheting.  Not only was she a fantastic cook, but as anyone who tried her apple pies or cookies can attest, also an expert baker. 

 

The best ways to describe Carol will always be to talk about her vibrant and buoyant warmth.  Her loving spirit was also exemplified by her gentle way with children and animals, especially her dogs whom she loved so much: Samson, Diesel and Knuckles. 

 

Upon her cancer diagnosis in November of 2014, Carol entered the excellent care of oncologist Dr. Michael Kane, MD and surgeon Dr. Cynthia Jones, MD.  Carol and her family would like to take this time to thank both them and their staffs for the incredible care they always gave Carol, as well as the nursing staff at Newton Memorial Hospital on 2 Hussey and Cathy Smith, RN of Karen Ann Quinlan Hospice.  Carol was never a patient for them, she was treated like family, and for that her family will be forever grateful. 

 

              Carol was predeceased by her father Richard DeDeyn, Sr. and her father in law Anthony J. Spina III.  She is survived in life be her beloved husband Michael, her cherished sons Alex and Jake both at home, her loving mother Gloria DeDeyn of Aberdeen, NC, her sister Jeanne DeDeyn of Rockingham, NC, her brothers Richard Jr. and his wife Kathy DeDeyn of Manning, SC and Robert DeDeyn of Elmwood Park, NJ. Also surviving are her mother-in-law Catherine Spina, her sister-in-law Debbie Piperno, her husband Frank, as well as numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.

               Visitation will be held Monday July 24th, 2017 from 5 to 9 PM in the Iliff-Ruggiero Funeral Home, 156 Main St. (Rt. 206) Newton. A funeral Mass will be held Tuesday, July 25th at 11:00 AM in the Good Shepherd Roman Catholic Church, Rt. 517 Andover, NJ. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations in Carol Ann’s memory to the American Cancer Society, The National Multiple Sclerosis Society or Karen Ann Quinlan Hospice

 
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Carol, we will miss you so very much. You brought so much joy to our lives. Glenn and I have so many fond memories of our time together. I will never forget all the wonderful nights just sitting on our back porch and talking and Laughing till the sun came up. Your touched so many lives in such a positive way. There is no one who can take your place. We Love you so much and look forward to seeing you on the other side. ???????????????
Kathleen and Glenn Hurta
Our dear friend Carol...our hearts are broken. You were truly a very special person, one of a kind. I will miss our funny conversations, your spirit, your laugh and most of all YOU. We love you and will miss you. May you Rest In Peace with the angels.
Kristi and Arpan
There are no words to express the loss we all feel. Carol, you touched everyone with your wonderful humor, and unwavering support and love. The most upbeat, positive person I have ever had the privilege to call a friend. Rest in peace. Love you always.
Dawn and Anthony
I will Always Love my Carol Ann!! Such a Beautiful Heart, a Loving Soul! I am Grateful that God Had our paths cross in this life, and I Pray we see each other again. Until then, I Love you! To Carol's family, My prayers of strength are sent up for you all! Blessings!?????????????????
Ginile Weeks
To Carol Ann's husband, son and family. May God give you what only God can give ?? Comfort of all comforts, peace beyond understanding. Deepest sympathy from a coworker. She will be miss.
Alba L Visotsky
My condolences to your family. I hope all of the wonderful tributes being posted will warm your heart in your time of need and your fond & loving memories keep her in your hearts forever. Colleen Grennan
Colleen Grennan
We will miss you Carol.
Bryna
I thank God for the honor of meeting such a wonderful awesome woman. I will really miss Carol Ann, she was a strong woman and set many good roles and examples for one to follow. Her words of kindness and her smile will forever be in my mind. My prayer are to the family for strength for loss, may God protect and provide and cover you all always.
Bonnie Hines
words cannot describe the sadness at this time, I will miss your warmth and quiet assurance but most of all your humor. Carol you always knew how to laugh and make us all laugh. you have touched us all and I will always remember you and be thank full for knowing you
Paul
Carol was a loving, kind woman. It was a pleasure knowing her.
Eileen Moran
You will always be in our memories. The Rivero family
Rodrigo
I love you forever Carol.. Thank you for just being you <3 t
Megan Dominguez
My dear sweet friend, I love you and I am going to miss you so very much! I wish we could go back in time, but that would be selfish of me because you are at peace now. I will never forget you!Thank you for being my friend to the end! God bless you and your family!
Cathy
Carol, I will always admire your strength, courage and kindness. Thank you for being a good colleague and friend. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. You will be greatly missed!
Lucia
Carol, You will always be remembered for your sweet kind soul, your ways to have always put a smile on our faces & for just being the wonderful person that you were. You are a gem and will never be forgotten. I will love & miss you always.
Desiree Paliotta Scielzo
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